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Post by tox on Oct 18, 2009 20:51:59 GMT -5
People HELP me!
Kay. I have a boyfriend guys, and no funny faces cause I'm thirteen, I know what I'm doing. And YES, I'm still a virgin!
Anyway, we've been together for nearly eight months, we've had ups and downs, but always worked it out in the long run. Until these past fews weeks, I've been utterly happy. Well now, something's up.
These past weeks, lots of things have been coming up, things I rather would keep unspoken. It's been about a billion things, but tonight its worse. He texted me.
He said "Hey, I need to call you later."
There goes that pit of dread. "Ok, should I be worried?"
He didn't reply for about ten minutes. Then he said "I feel like I'm about to make a big mistake but I'll talk to you about it later."
Mmhmmm. Tell me now. Does ANYONE not know what that means, like seriously. And I kind of feel bad, because if stuff like this keeps happening, I'm gonna be the one making the mistake.
So I say "K, I'm prepared for it." Because I'd kind of settled into the idea that he was gonna end it. And the thing is, I was kind of relieved for the idea. To not have to worry about doing things wrong, and not having problems pop up every flippin' day.
You know what he says. "Prepared for what?"
It took me about ten minutes to recover from that piece of genius. I asked if I had to answer that. Haven't gotten a reply back.
Guys I don't know what to do!
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Post by Desert on Oct 18, 2009 20:58:54 GMT -5
I'm not in a relationship right now but he said that he'd tell you about it later. So, really. That's what you have to do, in my opinion. I don't know what he's trying to say, it could be so many things. Really, be patient. |
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Post by tox on Oct 18, 2009 21:01:35 GMT -5
Well, the thing is. This isn't the first time something like this has happened. It's like the eighth.
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Post by Desert on Oct 18, 2009 21:03:41 GMT -5
What happened the firts seven times? |
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Post by tox on Oct 18, 2009 21:14:55 GMT -5
As I said, some unspoken.
I didn't call him enough. I now call him every night, because he wanted me too, not because I want to.(Not because of him, I just hate talking on the phone, he knows this)
I wasn't affectionate enough, which I've improved dramatically.
I wasn't affectionate in public. I hold his hand now and hang on him, like requested, which I don't mind.
He wanted to move forward. I didn't want to. He learned to deal with that, because I wasn't doing anything I didn't feel comfortable with.
He always gives me these cryptic messages that I can't understand. It seriously feels like he's just toying with my emotions. It really hurts to feel like he's just pushing me, and pushing me, as if trying to find out what my breaking point is.
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Post by atlas on Oct 18, 2009 22:28:05 GMT -5
Hi,
My name is Atlas 
I've just gotten over a majorly crappy relationship and I'd figure I'd give you my two cents on what I figure your guy is thinking.
I bet he is great and all, and no offense Noob, but boys are dumb. Cryptic messages is their specialty from what I've picked up on them. They don't mean to be that way, they just want you to figure things out for yourself.
I don't know the guy (obviously), so I can't really say if he is just messing with you or not. But I would advise you to be blunt with the truth on how you feel about things. "Prepared for what?"
"Well, sounded like you want to break up with me. Prepared for that"
If he is making you feel hurt, and this isn't a new trend, leave him. I'm all for working things out, but some guys just aren't worth it.
Try talking to him. No cryptic messages, no 30 minutes between texts. Tell him how you feel, and if nothing seems to be working, get out before you get too too hurt.
My two cents.
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